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Its quite easy to pick up a bad habit like falling for the same person for the second time, or having a steamy make out session with them after being caught in a moment of weakness even if youve already had a falling out. Its easy, comfortable, and familiar. And there are times when you just want to prove that you can do it again, or that you still have power over them.
If you ask me, I think its not a good idea to hook up with your ex in most cases. Here are the reasons why making out or getting back together with an ex dont work out:
You Cant Make It Like It Used to Be
You know its the beginning of the end when you feel that things are not what they are used to be. You try to work things out together, but the spark is gone and the relationship has run its course. Ive been in relationships where I seem so into it when I go to sleep at night, and then wake up the next day wondering why I didnt feel it anymore.
You Broke Up for a Reason
There is always a reason why a couple breaks up, even if its mutual. And whatever this reason is or reasons are this means youre not compatible. You will both undergo changes after the breakup, but there is not much of a chance of you changing and be suddenly compatible again.
Its Tough for It to Feel New
The fun part of a relationship is the early stages, and the best ones retain an element of this throughout its duration. However, its pretty tough to find this feeling again if you try to hook up and get back together with someone you already broke up with.
You Might Be Giving In
Its normal to swear somebody off after a breakup. You promised that youll never get back together with them, and youve learned what not to look for in a guy. While theres always risks involved when getting back together with someone, you might feel youre giving in a little, which is never a good attitude when dating someone. Its tough to get back with an ex with a clear mind.
If It Ended on a Sour Note, You Might Be Looking Over Your Shoulder
This gives emphasis to the old question: What makes you think it will be different this time around? And if you get screwed over again, you feel twice as foolish.
Trust is the backbone of any relationship. It is a frustrating thing like building a sandcastle: It takes a lot of time to build, but can be destroyed quickly. And in the aftermath, it takes much more time and energy put it back up again, but it may never be that same.